Some people seem to have a special something that attracts others in droves – yet it’s not obvious exactly what it is.
Maybe you’ve even had a few friends with this almost magical X factor.
What exactly is it? What’s it called?
The phenomenon I’m referring to is charisma.
Have you ever wondered: is charisma some innate quality you’re born with or is it something you can develop?
Most people think it is an innate quality.
Hogwash – anyone can become more charismatic.
Today I’m going to share two qualities you can develop that will make you more charismatic.
1) Being More Mysterious:
There are two sides to this.
The first is manifesting attributes about yourself that are at odds with each other.
An example of a charismatic political leader with contradictory personality traits is Peter the Great. He was both cruel and kind.
When you have contradictory personality traits people cannot categorize you.
A woman may become angry or frustrated that she cannot figure you out. However, this will spellbound her.
The second part is being uncanny.
If you convince others that you possess preternatural abilities, you’ll be charismatic in their eyes.
This is why cult leaders and some political stewards (in some parts of the world) are perceived by others as possessing charisma.
2) Inspiring Others To Be Better Than They Are:
If you can goad a person into seeing themselves as better than they currently are, they will see you as charismatic. If you can spur them to take action on this realization, they’ll see you as a super charismatic person.
John F. Kennedy was a master at this.
He spellbound America when he said, “It’s not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country.”
He made us think we could be better people then we were.
Here’s your homework:
1) Write down two of your personality traits that are in contradiction with one another. Instead of trying to conceal them, develop them and flaunt them.
2) Whenever a friend is feeling down think of how you can make them see themselves in a better light.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you’re into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
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