In this article I’m going to teach you how to attract women through qualifying and challenging them.
The first step is developing high standards.
Many men find themselves alone or, even worse, in destructive relationships because they have no standards.
“As long as the girl is hot,” they tell themselves, “I’m willing to tolerate her rhymes-with-itchy attitude and put up with her controlling behavior.”
“If I expect too much from her, I’ll push her away,” they worry.
Don’t do this. Unless, of course, you’re a masochist.
It kills all attraction faster than insecticide kills bugs and gives women a VIP pass to disrespect you.
On the other hand, when you have high standards, women feel compelled to live up to them.
How do you develop high standards?
I’m going give you two ways to develop high standards.
1) Take a few moments to think about your ideal woman.
If you’re looking for a wife, think about all the qualities that make up a good wife – e.g., loyal, compassionate, good cook and so on.
These qualities are your standards.
2) Figure out your desired outcome with a woman.
Then ask yourself: For you to achieve your desired outcome, what self-image would she need to have?
Maybe your desired outcome is to play tonsil hockey with her minutes after meeting her.
For her to be okay with you kissing her after knowing you for only a couple minutes, she’d need to be adventurous and spontaneous.
The next step is to turn these standards into challenges.
So let’s assume you want to kiss a girl minutes after meeting her.
Challenge her with, “Are you adventurous?”
She’ll say, “Yes.”
Then high five her with both hands, hold onto her hands, and say, “Good, ’cause I only date adventurous girls.”
Next, push her hands away a teensy bit without letting go and say, “I’m still not sure you can handle me. What makes you adventurous?”
After she qualifies, pull her close, wrap your hands around her sacrum, and say, “You’re awesome.”
Without releasing your hands, push her away a little and say, “I’m still not sure this relationship is gonna work out. Are you spontaneous?”
After she says, “Yes,” pull her in close and ask, “If you were in kissing school, what grade would your teacher give you?”
She’ll inevitably brag, “I’d get an A+”
Say, “Let’s find out,” and then kiss her.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you’re into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
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