In a bar somewhere on planet earth, Jake – a tall, good looking man – spots Jessica – a cute little blonde. After a few minutes of chitchat, they start kissing. After a few minutes of kissing, they leave the bar and head straight for Jake’s bedroom.
Imagine a planet exactly like planet earth. It has exact replicas of everything on planet earth – the same bars, restaurants, political leaders… and so on. Just like on planet earth, H20 is water. The exact same events that happen on earth happen on this planet. There’s even a twin earth Jake approaching a twin earth Susan.
So far, so good.
But here’s where things take a turn for the worse: twin earth Jessica ends up slapping twin earth Jake across the face.
That’s because both Jakes don’t have the same body language.
When earth Jake approached earth Jessica, he held a steady gaze. However, when twin earth Jake approached twin earth Susan, his eyes were swerving all over the place.
When earth Jake talked to earth Jessica he leaned back. On the other hand, when twin earth Jake talked to twin earth Jessica, he leaned toward her, communicating that he was needy.
When earth Jessica asked earth Jake an uncomfortable question, his body language was nonreactive. When twin earth Jessica asked twin earth Jake an uncomfortable question, he started twitching.
When talking to female strangers is your body language more like earth Jake or twin earth Jake? If it’s more like twin earth Jake, your body language is severely crippling your potential success with women. If that’s the case, I want you to do the following exercises.
1) Practice holding a steady gaze when talking to women: this will make you come across a lot more dominant and attractive to the opposite sex.
2) Practice leaning back when interacting with females: too many guys lean in when talking to girls in noisy places because they worry that the women won’t hear them. Don’t do this. It comes across as needy. When you lean back it forces the woman to lean into you. When she leans into you, you become the Prize she wants to win over.
3) When a woman insults you or asks you something uncomfortable, don’t react: when women ask embarrassing questions, most men squirm around like little girls. This makes them come across as weak and unattractive. Plus, the person least reactive in a social situation is in control of the interaction. If you train yourself to be nonreactive, you’ll be very powerful with women.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you’re into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
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